Nothing annoys me on twitter as much as the auto DM (direct message)… It clogs my inbox, annoys the hell out of me, is incredibly impersonal, and usually communicates the “me, me, me” instead of “what can I do for you.”
Yesterday, I got to the point that I almost messaged each poorly constructed one back telling them where to stick the book/brand/product/blog they were trying to push.
Even worse are the auto DMs with a link – for two reasons: one, right off the bat you’re trying to sell me something (yourself, your brand, your book); and two, with all the phishing schemes, you seem like a spam bot. Safe to say, you send me one with a link, and you’re getting unfollowed.
This opinion, however, is met with varying degrees of agreement and lots of heated debates. With that in mind, I’ll alienate some tweople by listing the recent examples I’ve encountered of terrible and bearable auto DMs.
Terrible
“You’re cool! Facebook me: http://tr.im/vOlQ; CAUTION:10 Cardinal Sins of Twittering http://tr.im/mMMd” Nothing about me or why I’m supposedly cool.. what a poor mass-message.
“Thanks for connecting, I hope it is productive. Grow and Spread your dreams http://ow.ly/iDsK” Am I supposed to click on your ambiguous link? Eat it.
“Looking forward to your tweets. Please get to know me thru my intro video: http://www.ipodiums.com/qlcoach” Great example of the “me, me, me.” why should I care?
“How 2 Leverage Facebook in Google http://tinyurl.com/seotip How I gained So many Followers http://tinyurl.com/bftwitter” Its the last part about gaining followers that sounds so spammy!!
“Thanks for following me! My tweets are usually about technology, things may make you sit up and say HUH but always positive and outgoing…” Seriously? get over yourself.
Bearable
“Thanks for the follow!!!” – @ufathom
“Thanks for the follow. Look for tweets about major (and some minor) things going on around the winery and in the vineyard.” – @crushpad
“Thanks for following me, I promise you update you with interesting Social Media news updates.” – @DeeptiAtrish
The DMs I really like are personalized, like this one from @cruzgary, “hey thanks for the follow! im going to check out myhosting as I am thinking of switching hosting companies..great tweets!.”
Another recent favorite of mine was this one from @djbhorner, “Thx for following! Definitely think that great conversation works well with great wine! Let me know if interested in video online research” because it mentions a bit about the info on my profile (conversation and wine) and allows me the opportunity to make a business connection – without being a hard sell.
Besides, isn’t the point of social media to connect with people and have real, 2-way conversations?
Do you use auto DMs? What do you find effective?
Start the debate.
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